First Things First

Many people operate daily under a “to do” list.  That is, as they consider the day before them, they list the things that they want to accomplish.  Likewise, sometimes the “to do” list is prioritized based on what needs to be done first.  Somethings are more important than others and need to be taken care of as soon as possible.  Other things can wait even if for another day.  The important thing is to do the first things first.

For most church’s worship, there is a typical order of worship that the congregation follows.  Each church may be different from one another, yet each church often has its own “to do” list when it comes to worship.  The “to-do” list may include singing, prayer, reading scripture, litanies, special music, a sermon, communion, and the like.  Hence, the congregation usually develops an order of worship.  What will worship begin with and how will it end?

In Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount in Matthew Gospel, Jesus teaches about doing first things first when it comes to worship.  In Matthew 5: 23-24 Jesus says, “So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift.”  According to Jesus, as we enter to worship the first thing, we should do is seek to reconcile with those whom we have had discord, division, and disagreement with.  If there is something broken in a relationship, then we should seek to make it right before we offer our worship to God.  Hence, as followers of Jesus, reconciliation should always come first.

In Paul’s second letter to the church at Corinth, Paul writes about how we have been reconciled to God through Jesus Christ.  In Jesus, our broken relationship with God is healed and made whole.  In Jesus, we are reunited with God in a new way.  As a result of our reconciliation with God, we must now become reconcilers ourselves.  Paul writes, “All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation.” (2 Corinthians 5:18) As Christians, the ministry of reconciliation should always be at the top of our “to do” list for the day.  Every day allows us to mend fences, tear down walls that separate, and forgive one another.  For when we bring unforgiveness with us to worship it will always impede our worship.  That’s why Jesus told us to leave our gift at the altar and go and make right that which is wrong.

So, whatever our “to do” list may be for today, let us not forget that God has called us to a ministry of reconciliation.  This should always be the first task of the day.  Reconciliation must be the first thing in our order of worship but also the order of our lives.

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Tongue Tied

Sometimes things just come out wrong; that is, out of our mouths. We say the wrong thing or say something in the wrong way. Regardless, the words that flow from our mouths are heard by others in a negative light. I think most people can remember times in which they wished they had not said something. We’ve all had experiences in which we would like to take back our words.

We also realize that words can cause pain. The old saying of “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” just does not stand the test of experience. We have all been hurt by the words of another just as we have hurt others with our words. Likewise, hurtful words can sometimes take a long time to heal. Richelle. E. Goodrich in her book, Smile Anyway: Quotes, Verse, and Grumblings for Every Day of the Year writes:

“Silly words cause trills
because they’re ludicrous and funny.

Happy words paint endless smiles
and swallow troubles whole.

Thoughtful words are thus
because they make the day feel sunny.

But hurtful words are such
that pierce the heart and weigh the soul.”

Indeed, words matter. The words we choose to use and how we use them can impact others for both the good and the bad. Perhaps this was the thinking of the writer of Proverbs in the Old Testament where it is written, “To watch over mouth and tongue is to keep out of trouble.” The writer contends that we must watch over our mouths and tongues as we seek to communicate with others, because there is power, both good and bad, in the spoken word.

In his letter to the church at Ephesus, the apostle Paul reminded these early Christians about using their words for the benefit of others. In Ephesians 4:29 Paul writes, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” As a people of faith, our words should always be filtered by God’s grace. Do our words reflect the character and nature of our Lord? Words matter and when we season them in the Spirit of our Lord, they are more likely to build others up, encourage others, and communicate love.
So, let us choose wisely. Words soaked in grace and love which seek to bring healing, encouragement, peace, and kindness to the lives of others. When we allow God’s Spirit to watch over our mouths, then our mouths will bring forth the words of our Lord and in the way of our Lord.

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When I was a young boy there was an open lot across the street from my house.  As a result, it became a great place to play football with my friends.  We would often meet there after school to play.  When we played a game of football, we had to referee ourselves.  As a result, there were some times disagreements about particular plays.  Every side would argue their case and understanding of what happened.  When we couldn’t reach a decision, someone would call out “do-over.”  A “do-over” call meant that the previous play was forgotten, and everything would be done over.  It was a new start; a new chance to play.

When you read the Gospels, there are countless stories where Jesus encountered individuals who had come to a point in their lives where they felt stuck in situations that offered no hope for their futures.  Whether it was a man covered with the sores of leprosy, a woman sitting alone at a well, a dishonest tax collector hanging from a sycamore tree, or a woman about to be stoned to death by a mob, Jesus entered the scene and cried out “do-over.”  Jesus refused to let these individuals remain in their hopeless situations.  Jesus offered a second chance and a fresh start with a new future.

In 2 Corinthians 5:17, the apostle Paul writes, “So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new!”  In Jesus, God offers every person a chance to start over and begin anew.  In Jesus, no life ever reaches a point in which it is beyond redemption and renewal.  Every life can find a new beginning in Jesus.

Nowhere is this more seen than in the cross.  The cross of Jesus is God’s way of saying “do-over” to a world broken by sin, gripped in guilt, and bound for hell.  God, out of his great love for us, turns the pages of our past and creates a new beginning for all.  We can leave our painful past and find hope for a new beginning in Jesus.  Regardless of what our lives may look like in the present, God says, “do-over.”  It is a new start and a new chance at life.


Our First Step

I don’t guess any of us remember our first step.  The moment as infants, when we stop crawling, stand up, and take a step.  At first, we may only take a couple of steps before we fall again.  But eventually, we get the hang of it and commence to walking wherever we go.  It is the first step of many over the course of our lives.  The average person takes around 7,500 steps/day. If this is maintained daily through the age of 80, you will have walked about 216,262,500 steps throughout your life.

As people of faith, each day we can choose what to do with our steps.  No one is controlling us, but we are free to decide which direction our day will go.  Our first step each morning is entirely up to us.  It would seem to me that the first step each day in our lives should be a step of gratitude.  When our feet hit the floor after a night of rest, the best way to begin the day is in thanksgiving to the God who has brought us safely through another night.  We are awake and alive and this is worthy of praise.

In Psalm 92:1 we read, “It is good to give thanks to the Lord.”  The first step each day should be a step of gratitude.  Before the worries of the day begin to settle in or we face the problems we have to tackle, we should step out first in gratitude.  If we begin the day with gratitude, then it can become our frame of reference for the rest of the day.  Even though the day before us might be challenging or difficult, we can see it through a lens of gratitude and thanks.  Andrew Murry, the great Dutch Reformed missionary sent from Scotland to South Africa and the author many books on the Christian life, once wrote,  “Thanksgiving will draw our hearts out to God and keep us engaged with Him; it will take our attention from ourselves and give the Spirit room in our hearts.”  If our first step of the day is gratitude to God, then this spirit of gratitude can guide the steps that follow and remind us that even in our most difficult steps how blessed we are.

In the Gospel of Luke, there is a story in which Jesus heals ten lepers all at once.  They are elated at their healing and turn to go and share their healing with a priest so they can be officially declared clean.  One leper, however, returns to Jesus, falls at his feet, and give thanks for what the Lord had done for him.  We should follow this leper’s lead and offer God thanks each day with our first step.  We can give thanks for all the Lord has done for us. If we step out first in gratitude to God, then we know that they will be heading out in the right direction.





When I was young, I can remember taking weekend trips to the mountains with my family.  These were not well-planned trips.  My parents just had an urge to go and off we went.  In seeking our hotel accommodations, I can remember my parents reading the vacancy signs that used to be outside of hotels.  These light up signs would either flash vacancy, that is, there were rooms available; or no vacancy, they were all filled.  The sign saved you the trouble of having to go in and ask at the counter.  Sometimes it took a while to find a hotel will rooms available.  There were simply not rooms enough to go around.

In John’s Gospel, Jesus spends time sharing with his disciples about his approaching departure.  Jesus knew that his death, resurrection, and ascension to heaven were drawing close and that he would soon be leaving his followers.  They were uncertain what this meant for them.  How would they go on without their leader?  Would they ever see him again?

In John 14: 1-3 Jesus says to his worried disciples, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house, there are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also.”  Jesus shared with his disciples that he would come again and take them to his Father’s house where there would be many rooms.  God’s house is expansive, and the rooms are unlimited for those who place their faith in Jesus as their Savior and Lord.

Jesus said he would come again and take them there himself.  In coming again, Jesus could have meant his second coming to earth which the Bible teaches will occur at the end of time where God will gather his followers and lead them into God’s eternal Kingdom.  Or Jesus could have meant that he comes again at the moment of our death and ushers us into God’s eternity.  Regardless, Jesus is the one who brings us to the Father’s house with many rooms.

Trusting in Jesus with our living and our dying is the pathway to this eternal home where there will never be a “no vacancy” sign.  When we place our faith in Jesus, we have the assurance that when we arrive in God’s heaven that there will be a place for us.  A place where we will dwell with God and all those who have gone before us.  In Jesus, we are destined to an eternity with God.  We need not worry about our arrival, because Jesus will already have our room ready and waiting.  There will always be a vacancy sign to greet us and welcome us home.


A Story of Tears

I wonder who it was that first shed a tear in the Bible?  Perhaps it was Adam and Eve after they had been banned from the Garden of Eden.  Did they weep over their fallen condition?  They had reason to cry.  Their paradise had been corrupted by their sin and they would no longer be able to return.  Regardless of when the first tear fell, the Bible is full of tears.

Esau wept when he realized that he had missed out on his father Isaac’s blessing.  Joseph wept when he was reunited with his brothers.  The people of Israel wept when their leader Moses died.  Ruth wept and clung to her mother-in-law, Naomi.  King David wept at the death of his son.  Jeremiah was known as the weeping prophet.  Jesus wept when he saw the grief of Mary and Martha.  Peter, the disciple, wept after he betrayed Jesus.  And Mary Magdalene wept outside the tomb of Jesus.  Indeed, the Bible is full of stories of tears.

Our lives are also filled with tears.  Tears of pain, sorrow, anger, fear, anxiety, and grief fill the pages of our lives.  We have all wept over someone or some experience in our lives that has left us broken.  We know what it is like to have a heavy heart and to feel our eyes grow heavy under the weight of our tears.  We know the feel of tears streaming down our faces. We know what it is like to fall asleep with tears on our pillows.  Someone once said, “tears are how our hearts speak when our lips cannot describe how much we have been hurt.

In the book of Revelation, John records the visions he had of heaven.  John looked toward a future in which the sadness and hurt that we experience in this world will be no more.  In Revelation 21: 3-4 John writes, “‘See, the home of God is among mortals. He will dwell with them; they will be his peoples, and God himself will be with them; he will wipe every tear from their eyes.”  John envisions a future where they will be no more tears.  The stories of our tears of living in a broken world will be wiped away by the tender and healing hands of God’s grace.  God is preparing for all who place their faith in Jesus Christ, a future, and eternity without tears.  When all is said and done with the stories of our lives, it will be a tearless ending.

This is our hope as we live out our lives in this world.  In the present, God knows every tear that falls and is with us as a comforting presence.  There will be tears in this life, but we will never weep outside the boundaries of God’s grace.  And ultimately, we live today with a hope for tomorrow in a tearless eternity in the everlasting light and joy of our savior where God will wipe away every tear from our eyes.

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How Sweet the Sound

From the moment our alarm clocks go off in the morning and we begin a new day, we are surrounded by sounds.  The noises around us are many, changing, diverse, and constant.  From the sounds of the radio in our cars, the sounds of traffic, work, school, leisure, and the like, there is little in our lives that remain quiet.

Some noises we welcome, like the sound of our children laughing and playing together or chirping crickets on a cool evening.  Other sounds may make us cringe like blaring sirens, construction work, or the loudness of commercials on our televisions.  There are some sound we wish we could hear again but cannot, like the voices of loved ones or friends who are no longer with us.  Some sounds we would just assume never hear like gunshots in the streets or the screams of a person in severe pain.

John Newton was an English clergyman and abolitionist who penned the words of one of the most well-known hymns, Amazing Grace.  Prior to his calling as a minister, Newton went to sea at a young age and worked on slave ships in the slave trade for several years.  He experienced and participated in the worst of humanity, human slavery.  He heard the cries of families being split apart as slaves were sold to different owners.  He heard the sounds of the auctioneer saying “sold” to the high bidders at slave auctions. He heard the sounds of whips tearing at the flesh on the backs of African men and women.  His life was filled with the sounds of hate, injustice, pain, and suffering.

But while on his boat in the midst of a storm at sea, God broke through the hardness of Newton’s heart and began a process of conversion; transforming Newton from a ruthless slave trader to an instrument of God’s love, mercy, and grace.  Eventually, it would be this transformation that would lead him to pen the words, “Amazing grace how sweet the sound.”  The sound of God’s grace had overpowered the other noises in his life and enabled him to hear clearly the wonders of God’s grace which can save us from our sin and rebirth us into a new life.  God’s amazing grace was the sweet sound that made all the difference in Newton’s life.

God’s grace is still the only sound that can offer true hope for our lives and for our world.  The daily noises that fill our lives can be overwhelming at times.  Yet, God’s grace is greater, and it is indeed amazing.  It changed the life of a slave trader and it can change our lives as well.  Grace, it is a sweet sound and the sound that makes all the difference in who we are and who we can become  So let us keep listening to for this amazing grace every day as the only sound that can truly bring the life we all long to live.


A New Song

I’m not sure how it happens, but sometimes I wake up in the morning with a song stuck in my head.  Somehow, a song that I heard or know, rises up out of somewhere and I find myself singing it or humming it throughout the day.  And once a song is stuck in my head, it is hard to get out.  Even when I try to start thinking about a different song, the one stuck in my head overpowers it and I go back to singing and humming it again.

It seems to me that every life has a song that it lives by.  That is, our lives are daily shaped by the lyrics and melody that plays over and over within us.  This song affects the way we live.  It influences our thoughts and ultimately our behavior.  It also becomes the lens by which we see and understand ourselves.

The problem, however, is that the song we listen to sometimes carries with a negative message about who we are, who we can become, and how we think others see us.  Listen to it long enough and over time we believe the lyrics.  Our song may tell us we don’t matter, no one cares, we can’t change, or that we are no good.  It gets stuck in our head and we resign to live with it.

During the ministry of Jesus, he encountered different individuals who had lived their lives believing the old lyrics of an old song that had shaped their lives.  Whether it was tax collectors, a sinful woman, diseased persons, fishermen, children, or Samaritans, people in Jesus’ day, as in our day, felt they had no other lives to live than the one they had been told to live.

Jesus came offering a new song for people’s lives that was written not by human standards, but by God, who gives worth, value, and dignity to every life.  Jesus offers new lyrics for every person to live by and a melody that guides us in our living.  The song that Jesus gives us frees us from the constraining lyrics of the world and offers us a new song to live by which sets us free.

In Psalm 40:3 we read, “He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God.”  We don’t have to live by the song the world places within us, but God offers us an original piece written with God’s amazing grace.  As we receive this song into our lives and allow it to “get stuck in our heads and hearts”, then we discover who we are in the eyes of God and who God has called us to be.  As the old hymn lyrics remind us, “There’s within my hearts a melody….Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, sweetest name I know, fills my every longing, keeps me singing as I go.”

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Good News

Good news.  It is hard to find in the media anymore.  Whether it is your local newspaper or television news channel or a national news program on cable, good news is rarely the topic of the day.  Rather, each day we are met with new headlines that remind us how broken our world is:  violence, prejudice, greed, abuse of power, hatred, anger, and injustice.  For most people, it can be overwhelming, if not downright depressing.  Add to the fact that the news now runs 24 hours a day on so many media formats, it is no wonder that we have become intoxicated with a steady stream of bad news.

In the Gospel of Luke, there is the story of Jesus’ encounter with a woman who had suffered from a bleeding problem for 12 years.  She had sought help from doctors, but no one could heal her.  She had exhausted her financial resources.  For 12 years, all she had known was bad news.  With such a health problem, she would have been declared “unclean” and forced to live a life of isolation. We could understand if she just gave up and surrendered to the bad news and immersed herself in a sea of despair.

However, rather than surrender to despair, she immersed herself into a sea of people that had surrounded Jesus.  She believed if she could just touch the hem of Jesus’ garment, then it would be enough to heal her.  Swimming against the bad news currents in her life, she reached out and indeed touched Jesus’ clothing.  Luke tells us that “immediately her hemorrhage stopped.

Luke goes on to tell us that Jesus immediately knew someone had touched him in an act of faith because he sensed the power that flowed out of him.  The woman realized that she could no longer hide behind the crowd of people.   Coming forward to Jesus she confessed what she had done and how she had been healed.  Jesus responds to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace.” (Luke 8:48) Twelve years of bad news had given way to the good news.  The hope for her bad news life would only be found in the good news of Jesus.

In our bad news world, the only real hope for all of us is the good news of Jesus Christ.  Only Christ can transform a broken world and bring peace as he did to this woman.  In Mark 1:1 we read his introduction to Jesus:  “The beginning of the good news of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.”  This is the headline news for all of us.  In Jesus, God has stepped into our broken world with the good news of hope and new life.  In Jesus, we now have an eternal source of good news to draw forth life, hope, peace, and joy.  It doesn’t mean that all the bad news in our lives will suddenly disappear.  It does, however, give us a new frame of reference to understand our world and our lives.  We do not have to surrender to despair, but like the woman, we can work against the current of bad news with the power and passion of the Gospel.

And we do this, by living out Jesus’ example of loving others, offering compassion and kindness to all, and allowing God to use us as conduits of his mercy and grace.  It is a high calling that demands we not give in to the bad news but rather to seek to transform it into something good.  Don’t stop watching the news but remember that ultimately it is the good news of our Lord that tells us who we are and who we can be.  The only one who can promise us the good life will not be found at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue.  If we believe that is our ultimate hope, then the bad news will continue to be the headlines.

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When the Saints Go Marching In

For many of us, when we hear the word “saints” we think of those figures of long ago who lived memorable lives for God, accomplished great things, were mighty prayer warriors, and people of great faith.  We usually see these saints in pictures in old books or paintings on walls.  Usually, in these pictures, they have a glow around them or even a halo over their heads.

In reality, a saint is anyone who has said yes to Christ Jesus and seeks to follow him.  The word saint originates from the Greek word meaning “holy” or “set apart.”  The New Testament uses the word saint or saints 67 times. In every instance, the reference is to all believers. Never is the word used of a special group of believers who serve God better than others. Scripture is clear that all Christians are saints.

For almost 30 years as a pastor of a local church, I have encountered living saints among the body of the church.  I’ve seen these saints share and sacrifice themselves in so many wonderful ways.  I’ve seen them change dirty diapers in the nursery, add numbers in the teller’s room, clean pots in the kitchen, hand out bulletins in the sanctuary, serve meals to the homeless, and write notes and cards to homebound members.  These individuals have shown me what authentic Christian love looks like.  They have also demonstrated to me the kind of humility that Jesus called us to have.

These saints also live knowing that God is not finished with them yet.  A true saint always knows there is room to grow more into Christ-likeness every day.  As someone once said, “saints are not born, they are made along the way.”  Becoming a saint is not an overnight experience.  It takes sacrifice, dedication, and living in faith, even in the most difficult times of life.  The saints I have met along the way have faced adversity, sorrow, pain, and suffering, but continued to trust in God.  Through it all, they continue to radiate a joy that has inspired me in my Christian walk.

The saints of God don’t simply walk the golden streets of heaven, but they can walk in and out of our lives every day.  They have something to teach us that they have learned along the way.  I am a better follower of Christ because of such individuals.  Even though some of these earthly saints have joined the congregation of heaven, I think of them every day and I give thanks to God for their continued presence in my life.  When the saints go marching in, I want to be a part of that number.  These saints are special people and I cherish every moment with them.

Let us give thanks to God for the saints in our lives.  May we listen, watch, and learn from them as they follow Jesus in their own lives.  Then let us realize that people are looking at us as we follow Jesus.  May we be a saint for them and pass on the loving glow that has been shared with us.  As Paul said, “So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are citizens with the saints and also members of the household of God.” (Ephesians 2:19)



Check Engine

The dreaded check engine light.  It is such a small little light, but when the check engine symbol lights ups in your car, then something is not working right.  A sensor in your vehicle has determined that something is not functioning as it should.  The light could mean anything from a transmission problem to a loose gas cap.  Yet, the lighted symbol can create anxiety for the owner as they do not know what is wrong.  And if it is something major, then you know that it can be costly to fix.  However, I think most folks are thankful to have an alert to catch the problem early before more damage to your engine may be done.  If something is wrong, then it is good to know as soon as possible.

What would it be like if we had a check heart light that came on in our lives, when something was not quite right in our relationship with God?  As a person of faith, I realize that there are times in my life in which my walk with God is not what it is supposed to be.  The life that Jesus called me to live often falls way short.  Even as I claim my allegiance to Christ, I still find myself entangled in my sin and stumbling through life.  My Christian walk is anything but Christian and my faith falters.

In Psalm 139, the psalmist prays that God will examine his life in light of his commitment and relationship to God.  The psalmist prays in verses 23-24:

Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my thoughts.
See if there is any wicked way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.  

The psalmist prays that God will check his life to see if there is anything in his life that is not pleasing to God.  Maybe there is some sin, a spirit of unforgiveness, a grudge, a prejudice, or ill-will towards another that has settled into the heart. And if there is something wrong, the psalmist prays for God to help him fix the issue and live life in a new way; a way that glorifies God and professes faith in God.

As Christians, we should daily examine our lives and our commitment to Christ to see if there are places in our lives that need God’s touch of grace.  Is there something under the hood of our hearts that needs to be fixed, adjusted, or removed all together?  If we do not acknowledge there is something wrong, then we limit the work of God’s grace and forgiveness.  Yet, when we honestly examine our lives, identify our sin, and ask for forgiveness, then God can make right that which is wrong.  In 1 John 1: 8-9 we read, “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he who is faithful and just will forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”  Honesty before God is the best policy when it comes to a healthy Christian walk.  Examining our lives daily is the best way to keep our lives in tune with the life of Christ Jesus.

When we allow God’s grace to do its work, then we will believing the best life possible.  God’s grace can fix that which broken and restore that which has faltered.  And when God’s grace settles into our hearts, then God can lead us in the way everlasting.




Weight Limit



Have you ever entered into an elevator with a lot of people and then noticed the maximum weight limit sign on the elevator?  You start looking at the people around you, sizing up their weight, and then trying to figure if you are close to the weight limit.  We probably don’t have to worry.  A typical elevator can carry between 2100-2500 lbs.

Sometimes, however, we do grow anxious about how much we can carry in our lives when it comes to our concerns, problems, uncertainties, and fears.  Life has a way of bearing down upon us, leaving us overwhelmed, beyond burdened, and weary of the weight of it all.

Many of us are tired.  Tired of living with the weight of the world upon our shoulders.  The stress of living in a broken world, that spares none us, has left up wondering how much more we can take.  The heavy weight upon our shoulders only mimics the heaviness of our hearts. Someone once said, “When the heart is down and the soul is heavy, the eyes can only speak the language of tears.” We have all done our share of crying.

In 1 Peter 5:7, we read, “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”  Peter and the early Christians knew a lot about the weight of the world on their shoulders.  The early Christians lived under constant persecution, where suffering, pain, and death were day to day realities for them and their families.  They had a lot to worry about when it came to burdens.  Peter, however, called the people to remember that they could place all the weight of worry and anxiety upon the Lord because the Lord cared for them.

The apostle Paul also sought to encourage the early Christians as they struggled with the weight of the world upon their lives.  In his letter to the Church at Corinth Paul writes, “We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.” (2 Corinthians 4: 8-9) Life can be heavy at times. However, we can cast it away, let it go, and let God lift us up where we belong.

Times have changed, but the burdens of this life are still heavy at times.  Yet, we do not need to carry them alone.  Rather, we can cast them upon the Lord, trust in the sufficiency of his grace, the strength of his power, and the tenderness of his love.  God never promised that life would be easy, carefree, and without a burden.  God did promise, however, that we could place the weight of the world upon him.  Indeed, God’s shoulders are the only ones that can carry it all.



Slip Sliding Away

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Most every person has taken a fall at some point in their lives.  We’ve tripped over something, lost our footing, or slipped on a slippery surface.  Sometimes we catch ourselves, sometimes someone else catches us, and sometimes we fall.  A slip and a fall tend to follow a similar pattern.  First, there is that moment of fear when you realize you are slipping.  It shocks you because it is so sudden, and you were not expecting it.  Second, your body reacts, and you reach out to grab something to try and break your fall.  Third, if you can’t reach anything you try to prepare for the impact of the fall.  All this takes place in a matter of seconds, so there is not much time to think about the slip and the fall.

But it doesn’t take a physical fall to feel as though our lives are slipping and we are about to fall.  Situations arise, often catching us off guard, and suddenly we feel as though the world has been pulled out from under our feet.  Life which felt secure and steady now feels uncertain and shifting.  At these moments we are often struck by fear at it seems we are about to lose control.  Our confidence wavers and we fear that we might not be able to hold it all together.  It can be during these moments that we feel helpless and hopeless.

When we read the book of Psalms, we witness the honest faith of individuals who often found themselves in difficult situations.  The psalms tell stories of fear, anxiety, hopelessness, and despair.  Yet, the psalms also speak about courage, peace, hope, and joy.  Indeed, the psalms speak the truthful reality of what it means to live in a broken world where slips and falls occur and where joy and hope can be found.  In Psalm 94: 18, the writer confesses:

When I thought, ‘My foot is slipping’,
your steadfast love, O Lord, held me up.

This particular individual felt as though they were about to slip and to fall.  Whatever they were facing, it felt as though they were about to be knocked off their feet.  Yet, at that moment the psalmist’s faith confessed: “your steadfast love, O Lord, held me up.”  The psalmist confesses, that God’s steadfast love sustained him at the moment.  God’s love held him up.  In gratitude, the psalmists realizes the saving power of God’s love.

Yet there are those times when we do fall and hit the ground.  As a people of faith, we know that even with faith, sometimes life knocks us down.  Yet, the same God who seeks to keep us from falling also comes to us when we do fall to lift us.  In Psalm 145: 14 we read:

The Lord upholds all who are falling,
and raises up all who are bowed down.

God comes to us in our fallen state, assures us of his presence, heals our brokenness, and seeks to help us stand.  God is not only with us in the fall, but God is with us when we hit the ground.  God knows that we live in a slippery world, that life can trip us up and we can fall.  Yet, whether we are walking tall, falling fast, or find ourselves in the dust, God will be with us.  Our faith doesn’t promise us that we will never slip and fall.  Our faith, however, promises that God will be with us regardless.  As God promised to Joshua, God promises to us in Joshua 1:9:

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.



You Are What You Eat

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Most people are familiar with the phrase “you are what you eat.”  It is usually said as a reminder that the food we eat will affect our physical bodies.  The first mention of the phrase “you are what you eat” came from the 1826 work The Physiology of Taste, in which French author Anthelme Brillat-Savarin wrote: “Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are.”  And while I still love a good cheeseburger, I do know that it is not wise to eat one a day as a regular part of my diet.  Many of us realize that we should eat better.  Having the discipline to do so, however, is another thing.  When I see the golden arches of McDonald’s, I find myself craving an order of fries.  So, there is some truth in the phrase, “you are what you eat.”

In the book of the prophet Jeremiah, the prophet seeks to call the people back to their covenant with God.  The people of Israel had a way of forgetting God as the centerpiece of their lives, and often wandered away and sought and worshiped other gods.  They knew that their spiritual health needed God as the main entree, but they often went for spiritual junk food.  Thus, Jeremiah similarly reminded the people, “you are what you eat.”  In Jeremiah 2: 5 we read these words, ” they went far from me, and went after worthless things, and became worthless themselves.”  Jeremiah realized that when something other than God became the center of the people’s lives, then their lives would be formed and shaped by whatever that was.  Indeed, what we value most in life, often determines the kind of life that we live.  For Jeremiah, a devotion to something worthless leads to worthless living.

Chronologically, we are a long way away from the day of Jeremiah, but our devotions have not changed too much.  We still tend to seek meaning, purpose, and joy from things that cannot ultimately provide it.  We still seek out other gods to give us our identity, value, and direction whether it be wealth and possessions, sexual pleasures, power, and prestige, or whatever we make room for on the throne of our hearts.  Jesus would speak this same truth in Matthew 6: 19-21,

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

While we should all be concerned about the health of our physical hearts and how the food we eat affects them, we should also spend some time examining the spiritual diet of our lives and what is that we consume the most in our lives?  Whatever we treasure most in our hearts will shape our hearts.  Whatever shapes our hearts will determine the kind of lives that we live.

I would be dishonest to say that I always get it right.  It doesn’t take too long daily to find something else sliding into the place where God should be in my life.  Like the people of Israel in Jeremiah’s day, I am prone to wander after worthless things.  It is only by God’s grace in Jesus that I can find my way back to the One that can ultimately give me the life we all hunger for.



Make It Count

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There are 365 days in our calendar year.  Many of these days pass by without much fanfare.  We might call them ordinary days.  They are the days we go to work or school, pay the bills, grocery shop, change the oil in the car, and watch our favorite TV show.  Then there are those days that we highlight on our calendars:  The day we leave for vacation, our coming wedding day, Christmas, Birthdays, and the like.  For many of these highlighted days, we even count the days till they arrive.  How many more days before the “big” days arrive?  Sometimes we can hardly wait to get to that special day for whatever reason makes it special to us.

In Psalm 90, the writer ponders the human frailty of life in light of the eternal nature of God.  In doing so the psalmist confesses, “You sweep them away; they are like a dream,
like grass that is renewed in the morning; in the morning it flourishes and is renewed in the evening it fades and withers. The days of our life are seventy years, or perhaps eighty, if we are strong; even then their span is only toil and trouble; they are soon gone, and we fly away.” (Psalm 91: 5-6, 10).  The psalmist concludes that our lives pass by quickly and should not be taken for granted.  Hence, in verse 10 we read, “so teach us to count our days that we may gain a wise heart.”  

The psalmist’s advice for living:  “count your days and make them count.”  In light of our faith, every day should be seen as special and worthy of our attention.  Each day we are allowed to live our lives in such a way that we glorify God.  Each day we can choose how to live our lives.  Our writer suggests that when we count our days, then we gain a wise heart.  That is, when we see each day as a gift of God, then we will live each day in gratitude and thanksgiving by making wise choices with the time that we have been given.  A wise heart will understand that life is a gift to be lived to its fullest and shared in love with others.  A wise heart will count its blessings and then share those blessings with others.

We only get one shot at this thing called life.  There are no do-overs and we cannot turn the clock back and relive the days that have already passed.  We can only live in the moment that we are in.  Not even tomorrow is promised to us.  Hence, we need to make each day count by loving God and by loving others.  For when all is said and done with the days of our lives, these are the only things that matter.  So, let us count our days and let us make our days count.


Calm, Cool, and Collected

We’ve all been warned before:  “Watch out, he has a quick temper.”  Be careful around her, “she can go off at any moment on you.”  “That group has a short fuse, so watch yourself.”  Such statements are warnings against engaging with someone because the individual or the group has a reputation of getting angry or upset in the blink of an eye.  Things may seem fine, but all of a sudden, they explode.  A quick temper, a short fuse; we’ve probably experienced it in some form.

On the other extreme, we have known individuals that it takes a lot to get them upset or mad. They just seem to absorb the situation around them, regardless of how stressful it is, and simply move forward in calm, cool, and collected manner.  When times are uncertain and anxiety is running high, we look to such individuals to help navigate us through it all.  In the language of Family Systems Theory, we look to those who are a “non-anxious presence when everyone’s anxiety is off the chart.  An individual who can keep it together as well as ourselves.

As people of faith, we trust that God, in spite of the chaos of our world at times, has things under control.  God does not allow his divine frustration to spill over into temper tantrums, vindictiveness, or hostility towards you and me.  Even with every reason to let us have it at times, God remains calm, cool, and collected.  The psalmist realized this in the 145th Psalm where he confessed, “The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.” (Psalm 145:8) For the writer of this Psalm, God could be trusted to keep things together where others might lose it, go off the handle, or explode in anger.  God is able to handle the stress of a world which seems so tightly round up that it might spin off its axis.

Likewise, in our own individual lives, our insides can get all tied up in knots as well, our stress level erratic, and we are unsure how much we can take.  We ourselves might feel as though we are about to explode from the inside.  In faith, however, we can bring all of this to God and trust that the God we come to will not turn away from us, throw up his hands in frustration, or strike out at us in pent up anger.  Rather, we are met by God’s gracious mercy, abounding love, and patience.  God is calm.  God is cool.  And God is collected.

Regardless of how stressful life can become, God can handle it.  We simply must trust that God is ablet to hande it all; including our own lives.

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I Believe, Help My Unbelief!

For almost 30 years I have stood behind a pulpit every Sunday and tried to bring a message of hope to the people in attendance.  My faith in Jesus Christ has led me to believe that the story of his life, death, and resurrection is a message of hope for the entire world.  Now there is no doubt that we live in a broken world and that our own individual lives are broken as well.  At different points along our journeys, we find ourselves looking for a light of hope when the darkness envelops us.  We look to a light that will lead us out of the darkness and into the brightness of a new day.

Jesus once said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12) In Jesus we are promised that we can have the light of life to accompany us as we live out our lives in the world; even when the world and our lives are dark.  This is indeed a message of hope.  It is a message that I felt called to proclaim many years ago and have sought to be faithful to its truth.

But in all honesty, there are times in my life when this light barely flickers.  I imagine you have experienced the same thing.  During these periods I don’t feel very hopeful.  Life has put me in a tailspin and it just seems that I sink deeper into darkness.  I know that Jesus is the light of the world, but sometimes I doubt the power of his light.

In the ninth chapter of the Gospel of Mark, there is a story in which a young son is brought to Jesus to be healed.  The young boy seems to suffer from some form of epilepsy.  Mark tells us that the boy falls into convulsions, falls to the ground, and rolls about and foams at the mouth. When Jesus asks his father how long he has suffered, the father says since childhood.  The father also asks Jesus to have pity on them.  To his request, Jesus responds, “All things can be done for the one who believes.” (Mark 9:23) The father wants to believe, but confesses his doubts by saying, “I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24) It is the prayer of an honest man.

In my own life, even at times as I have been preaching a Sunday sermon, I have been inwardly praying, “I believe; help my unbelief.”  Even as I proclaim the hope we have in Jesus Christ as our light in our darkness, I must acknowledge the doubts and darkness within.  I need help with my belief.  I can’t muster up the strength to believe, but even my faith is dependent upon God’s grace.  “Yes, I believe.  But Lord, help my unbelief.”

As followers of Jesus, we are a mixed bag of faith and doubt; light and darkness.  This is why we are dependent upon God’s grace to help us in our weakness.  It is why our faith cannot grow without the help of God’s grace.  The prayer of the father may be one of the most honest in the Bible.  May we be honest as well before God.  May we trust that God’s light can poke holes in the darkness of our doubts and lead us to believe as Jesus said, “All things are possible for the one who believes.”

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If you depend on a GPS system on your phone or in your car to get you from here to there, then you have undoubtedly heard the voice message “recalculating.”  If you miss a turn or turn the wrong way, then the GPS system will automatically reset your directions based on your last movement.  It will now give you new directions to follow.

Sometimes it would be nice to have some kind of system to help us make decisions about the direction of our lives.  Often, we find ourselves in situations in which a decision is to be made that will have an impact on the direction of our lives.  Hence, we want to make the best decision that will lead us in the right direction.  As a result, this uncertainty about which way to go can lead to sleepless nights and anxious days.

As people of faith, the hope is that God will show us the way.  We often bathe these moments in the waters of prayer asking God to direct our steps.  We not only want to make the best decision, but we also want to move in the direction that God desires.  In my own life with such moments, I have often turned to a scripture passage from the book of Proverbs.  Proverbs 3: 5-6 reads, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding;

in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.”  The scripture invites me to trust God and acknowledge his presence in my life and my decision-making process and God will show me the way.  The scripture also reminds me to lean not simply on my own understanding, but rather to lean into God and trust his guidance.  It has been my experience that God will show us a way, even where there seems to be no way.

Yet, even when I do try to honor God’s presence in my decisions, I still find myself at times making a wrong turn.  Rather than choosing to follow God’s lead, I venture out on my own.  During these times, however, I either end up lost or stuck at a dead end.  Fortunately, God’s grace is always recalculating.  God is a God of second chances.  Even when we falter, God still offers himself to us and his faithfulness.  When we make a bad turn in life, God does not turn away from us, but he goes with us and then helps us recalculate as we try to move forward again.

We may feel stuck or lost in our lives.  We may find ourselves beating ourselves up for making a poor decision.  We may be wondering if there is any way forward.  Yet, wherever we are right now in our lives, we can trust that our God is with us.  We can also trust that God will show us the way as we lean into him.  And even if we have made a bad decision, God is always recalculating to show us the better way.

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The Rest of the Story

Everybody likes a happy ending.  Whether you are reading a book, watching a movie, or watching a play, you hope that the story ends well.  Indeed, it can be disappointing to get caught up in a story and then not have it end well.  On those occasions, the story leaves us disappointed, sad, or even angry.  We want a good ending; a happy ending.

Life is made up of stories.  Each person’s life is a story.  Each day in a person’s life is a story.  From the moment we are born to the moment of our last breath we are part of an unfolding drama that involves people, places, and things.  Sometimes the drama is rather mundane and ordinary.  On other occasions, our stories can leave us breathless with fast-paced action.  Parts of our stories are happy, and parts of our stories are not happy.  Likewise, each story is unpredictable.  We do not know what each day will bring.

In the book of Psalms, we read the thoughts and prayers of ordinary individuals trying to make their way through the world with their faith in God.  Thus, it is not uncommon in the psalms to hear the cries of those who are trying to figure out the bigger story of their lives.  For example, in Psalm 39: 4 we read, “Lord, let me know my end, and what is the measure of my days; let me know how fleeting my life is.”  Here the psalmist prays to know how the story of their life will end.  Will it be a good ending? In our own lives, we too sometimes wonder how it will all end.  When we read or hear the latest news stories, we sometimes wonder how we got ourselves into such a mess and if there is any hope for the future.  When you add your struggles to the mix it may feel as though there is no way the story can end well.

The apostle Paul never had it easy.  Once he decided to follow Christ, he found himself in a daily struggle to survive.  He endured beatings and imprisonments, shipwrecks, floods, and hunger.  Paul knew what it was like to just get by living in the world.  Yet, even with all these struggles and hardships, Paul knew how the story would ultimately end.  Paul writes in Romans 8: 18-21:

I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be revealed to us. For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the children of God; for the creation was subjected to futility, not of its own will but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to decay and will obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God.

Paul knew that despite all the difficulties that he faced in life that his life would end well.  Indeed, it would end well for all those who trust in Christ Jesus.  As Christians, we know that ultimately God will have the last word for all of creation, and each of our lives.  The broken world will not have the final word, but a God of blessing will.  When all is said and done, all will be well.  Oscar Wilde, the great Irish poet, and playwright said it well:  “Everything is going to be fine in the end.  If it’s not fine, it’s not the end.”  It is no wonder that the final word of the Bible is the word “amen” which simply means, “so be it.”

We can trust that God knows how the story will end for he is the author.  And if God is the author, there will always be a good ending. So, Amen.

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Dozing Off

I could barely hold my eyes open. It was a lecture about Victoria, Canada. It was the next stop on our family cruise. Now I had never been to Victoria, Canada, nor did I know anything about Victoria, Canada. You would think I would want to soak in every bit of information I could for our next stop. However, I couldn’t stay awake. I know this because my family videoed me dozing off. They have a good laugh with it now.

Sometimes it is hard to stay awake: sitting in class in school, maybe a pew at church, a boring movie, a long car ride. We’ve all had those experiences where we fought off sleep as our heads bobbed up and down and our eyelids felt like they were lined with cement. It can be a challenge to stay awake when you’re tired. And when you do doze off, you may miss something in that moment of slumber. So, if you are in the company of others, when you do wake up, you ask, “what did I miss?”

In the book of Psalms, the writer considers God’s presence in his own life. We read in Psalm 121: 3-4: “He who keeps you will not slumber. He who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep.” God does not doze off. God does not tire or get sleepy. As a result, God does not miss out on our lives and our day to day experiences. Even when our days are slow and dull, God does not rest God’s eyes. The writer Job would confess, “For his eyes are upon the ways of peoples, and he sees all their steps.” (Job 34:21)

Our steps take us in many directions over the course of our lives. Likewise, some of our steps are made with joy while other steps are painful and slow. Some steps keep us close to home while others are made in distant lands. Yet, as our scripture reminds us, regardless of where our walk takes us in life, God’s eyes are upon and God eyes are always open. God never misses out.

With this good news, we can live in faith trusting that our God is never asleep on the job. Rather, God’s love for us, energizes his passion to watch over us and keep us. We are safe under the watchful care of a God who never sleeps.

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